Thanks for not just scoffing at it - though, I have to admit, I completely understand those that do! I want to write a longer post about it at some point, but for now: my wife and I are opening up completely to one another, we're 100% transparent with one another, we're honest and vulnerable with one another, and even the tiniest little embarrassing fantasy fart of your imagination is safe space for you to navigate in and reflect over. It's liberating. It's transformed our relationship completely. The sex we have these days are just out of this world. I could write a lot more, but I'm sure you'd want me in a psychiatric ward by then, but I assure you, I'm healthy and not up to anything sinister. We've just, or so it seems, tapped into a more primordial wisdom, and it's having some very positive consequences on things that are very down to earth and practical, but that is also echoing into something way more exciting and full of color in the future. So you know, just be here for it, just in case, you know! Why not hope for something extraordinary to happen? What have you got to lose? Try listening more to your heart, do more of the things you love doing, and do less of the brick you feel others make you do. It's very refreshing.