The world is definitely different now.That’s my standard
I love my wife and kids I really do but in the one who gets a lecture when I’m having to tell the kids off for dropping the iPad 3 times in a minute whilst walking up the stairs… or because I’m having to shout at the kids to get ready for school (knowing I’m missing a work call for the school run and the kids are too busy playing).
My dad was not involved in anything parenting wise. He was a social club drinker after work Thursday to Sunday and took me and my bro too footy in the day time. Not sure how my mum put up with it TBH
I’m actively involved and spend 80% or my life thinking about the family… it’s a weird dynamic as to how we as men and women think
The only way I get to have hobbies is if a kid shares them.